James 1:26, 3:2-12 Your Tongue1. Naturewhat the tongue is compared to in these verses* Bit
* Spark
* Rudder
*Wild Animal
* Spring
* Fruit
- it sets your course Proverbs 13:3, 11:12Mother: What is a lie?
Son: It is an abomination to God... but a very present help in time of need. :o)
do you lie? speak to quickly/too much? can people trust you?* consider the power of your words
it can tear down:friends, family, homes etc.
it can build up:heal, calm, encourage etc.
- it reveals your heart Luke 6:43-45... out of your heart your mouth speaks...
- it builds and destroys Proverbs 12:18, 18:21, 25:11men can inspire millions by their words... ...and destroy them just as easilythe tongue contains poison
it can be our worst enemy
* Our speech is not going to be naturally good - we are not naturally good- it is only through Christ and in submission to Him that he can 'Season' our speech2. NurtureWe need to have consistency in our speech
Psalm 19:14, Colossians 4:6 it should:be pleasing to God, build people up, develop wisdom in what we say
-principles that guide our speech
is it:True
Helpful- it might not be what they want to hear, but is it helpful?
Inspiring-
Proverbs 12:25Necessary
Kind- what is my motive?
Think before you speak-process James 1:19Listen, slow to speak-seek to understand, slow to become angry
practice not grumbling *try to think of all the good things, things that you appreciate about a person that you are angry with - shift your perspective "It is better to keep you mouth shut and appear stupid than to open it and remove all doubt"
- Mark Twain
James 3:2"
he is able... to keep his whole body in check..."
Focus on: I want my speech to be Godly